Sex Magick, Orgasms, & Intention by messalinainthemists

Writer: messalinainthemists

Subject: Sex Magick, Orgasms, & Intention

Link: Tumblr / 07.01.2026

Sex Magick, Orgasms, & Intention

“Sex magic (sometimes spelt sex magick) is any sexual activity used in magical, ritualistic or otherwise religious and spiritual pursuits. One practice of sex magic is using sexual arousal or orgasm with visualization of a desired result — sexual energy is a potent force that can be harnessed to transcend one’s normally perceived reality.”

The topic and the illustration are both “edgy” yet appropriate. Often overlooked by many who profess to follow the Dark Lord or otherwise relate to the “other side,” sex magick is often overlooked when it comes to seeking solutions to situations because masturbation is seen as sex focused, with the goal being the climax or orgasm centered around that explosive pleasure that briefly and sometimes longer wafts as it happens and afterwards.

It’s a “pleasure me” experience for most, where one is often watching porn or living out a fantasy. Women jill (my word for the deed) all the time, often unwilling to admit they do. However, my emphasis here is this:

Is there more there when we indulge and experience that sexual energy that emerges while it happens? Is there something I will describe as “supernatural communication” where if one has a need, a desire, if they focus on that need or desire, when they orgasm, does all that sexual energy transcend, similar to a petition of sorts where the Beyond listens and responds?

I once asked that question and compared it to “knowing the code” to get “Heaven” to respond, similar to “open sesame” and the cave to treasures opens (see Ali Baba & The Forty Thieves). Have an issue, have an orgasm and in the midst of it happening, your petition is presented, and all is well.

A problem arose with that conclusion: when one is in the thrall and throes of an orgasm, is one even able to suddenly able to make a petition not at all related to things sensual and sexual, etc.? It’s an honest query. And that’s only one. I concluded I was altogether missing the point. Sex magick isn’t petition … its transcendence. It wasn’t that an orgasm opened the door where I was able to communicate with “Heaven”. It was me sharing me with the Dark Lord from a place deep within me — it’s hard to describe. It’s as if in the moment, you know He’s there and listening.

Still, I find that dealing with the Dark Lord isn’t complicated. In fact, doing so is quite easy. We can make it hard and often do. What is truly hard is “believing.” All the other indicia are out there for me to pick and choose when it comes to how I exercise my followship and live out my belief.

The fact is, since the Old Spectre is incomprehensible and incomparable, He (always remember I elect to describe Him in the masculine but He is more), He can do as He damn well pleases and does. So who am I to say that sex magick is ineffective when so many indulge?

What a follower has to realize is that what is happening is more than the feeling that comes from the orgasm. For example, now when I orgasm via jilling or otherwise find myself silently if not orally praising the Dark Lord. For you see, I now see more in my orgasms and pleasure, though I can’t describe it.

Some say that one’s intention can be “communicated” during the process. Others share that it occurs when the climax or orgasm occurs. I’m reminded of Christian theologians speaking to what, where and why something is permissible and sinful. What IS important is both belief and honesty in intent. The energy is there. It happens when one orgasms. The relief we feel is real. How the Dark Lord responds is up to Him. It’s done. Overall, it’s a mystery. The key to understanding this is transcendence.

Sex majick is more than a simple or seeming petition process where the Divine will dance to our tune. It is a very personal, passionate belief, even if we doubt, a process where one’s very being is thrust into the experience. It’s more than a recipe for divine communication. If that is how it’s seen, it’s ineffective.

There are others better able to describe what I am attempting to share. One can readily come to that conclusion by going online. What is missed by most is that I describe it this way, there can be more to an orgasm than the simple sensual pleasure we experience. It’s that place where, when I give it serious thought, one realizes following the Dark Lord is a relationship. It’s not religion with all its expectations, requirements and structures. Sure, sex is often “fun” and “release.” But there can be more in that dynamic.

I have always shared that I see jilling — what I describe as solo sex — as a gift given to us by the Creator because we also have freedom to think and feel (the senses) freely (actually more than that because often lust and desire emerge at the most unlikely of times or moments). Just as we are told sex between a caring couple is special, might it be that jilling, given to us as it is by Creation, is likewise special, personal and private to each of us.

Enough said, though more can be. This isn’t well written, it’s “off the cuff,” but it’s from the heart. And, yes, I engage in sex magick. It’s personal to me.