Privilege by Hoku Lani

Privilege is the idea that cis is the normal, the default and trans is not merely another state of being but an abnormal state. This privileges cis people over trans people and creates a social inequality that cannot be opted out of. I cannot choose to be cis as a black person cannot choose to be white as politicians cannot choose to not be idiots.

The Dark Goddess, Lilith showed me this is completely wrong, this is what must be torn up and thrown out. When we remove the idea that trans is an opposite to cis, we accept that it is in fact just another possible state of being. Neither wrong nor right, merely being.

From this position the words transgender and transition can be understood to be constructed incorrectly. If you understand trans as a normal state, then the word transgender shifts from meaning someone whose gender is incongruent with their biology to someone whose genitals at birth are a variant differing from the mean.

We move to a position where we must accept that some women simply have a dick. Similarly when we look at the process we have labelled “transition”, we must ask what exactly are we transitioning to and from? When we accept the imposition of a gender is incorrect and that gender is an understanding of the self.

It follows that someone like me may never have been identified as a male. If I had a say in it, I would have ticked the F or NB box and if this is an understanding of myself, exactly what gender am I “transitioning” from and too?

That is to say, no one is cis or trans, they merely are. I didn’t accept my cock and learn to love it, I learnt that we as humans simply don’t understand gender. It is why we invented a false god and billions ask for forgiveness and beg to be slaves in an imaginary heaven. I simply choose to refuse to accept cis privilege. I am not “impossible”, I AM.

My cock was never a male cock. My body was never a male body. To me transition is a flawed term to describe treatment for a hormonal problem that was causing me depression. I am not transgender, I AM Hoku. Salvete Lamia.

RESPONSE BY XP (VIA LS666 BLOG) 

I am in awe of those that are brave enough to become who they truly are. It’s not a label, or a name, or a transition — it’s a choice. There’s no rational explanation. No terminology can adequately describes it —  A woman with something extra? Transgendered? Transsexual? Ladyboy? Shemale? Femboi?

For those of us — males that have this preference — were sometimes referred to as “chasers”. A rather derogatory term but I have always seen this preference, not as a fetish or an interest, but as something that comes from within — rejecting the traditional stereotypes for what I truly love.

Does this make me a pervert, gay, bisex, or pansexual? Who the fuck knows! I just feel drawn to Hoku and her amazing world. I would say, “Be yourself without apologies” — isn’t that the way of Satan and Lilith?