The “Knee-Wide” Approach – Non-Fiction

“I have read several of your tumblr articles where you talk about the knees-wide approach.   Do you mean like ‘fuck on the first date’ ?

Yes,  I do use that term and have created it as a way to describe how a woman who is seeking the Dark Lord should look at life through what I call a “sexual lens” or by, as one tumblr author shared, “Sexualize everything”. The term does not mean that one should engage in sex on the first date. Rather, it means that she can is she wants to without guilt or shame or feeling she is going to be  condemned or someone is going to hold it over her head. The term can be applied to men also (one’s sexual desires are there own and not limited to the heterosexual). However, I am a woman and write from that perspective.

The phrase goes beyond the sex act and speaks to having a sensual attitude when considering everything .. .an open mind and often seeing things with an eye to being more open and permissive. As one mom friend of mine said when she and I were shopping for school clothes for our girls, “We don’t argue over skirt length anymore or how tight this is or how revealing that is. Rather, we do look at underwear and those cute shorts she can wear underneath to maintain her modesty if she wants to do so”, with emphasis on “if she wants do do so”. My friend  had come to that place where she applied how she felt at her daughter’s age to her own daughter and “developed” a more permissive approach in her parenting rather than applying what I call the “prevent my daughter from sinning and making the mistakes I did” guilt filled approach. The knees-wide approach is realizing the realities when your daughter starts dating and cocks come into her life. Why do I say “cocks”?  Because that is the issue, the bottom line we dont’ want to openly discuss as xians. When we wives and moms talk about guys,  we are talking about cocks.

The term describes a state of mind, how you perceive things and don’t see them as a “danger” to who you are or how you present yourself to others. You are not afraid to fuck if you want to and you are free to masturbate and fantasize about guys or any other sexual situation or perversion you wish to even if you can’t bring yourself to do what you fantasize about now but  you may at some point do so. The term can be considered a selfish approach to life … breaking the ten commandments is a good way to look at the term. Not the murder bit, but when it comes to adultery and coveting,  not just thinking about it but doing it. Seeing women as attractive and men as appealing. Allowing yourself to be aroused and not feel bad about it but feeling okay with it and acting accordingly. Feeling free to masturbate in the bathroom during the day at work or to flirt if you wish or tease back when being teased. It happens. Especially when your cute cousin is looking at you or pats you on the ass  and you felt guilty and wondered what you had done when it was him who was leering at you and carrying on with suggestive talk. You can say the “approach” is a way to say “If it feels good, do it”.

The knees-wide approach is a mindset. Look at the photo above. When one applies the “approach” in their own life, they don’t have to strip naked or go commando. One can be fully dressed but signal  with their knees how they view thier “situation” of the moment and thier willingness or whatever in a way to arouse the other or show their own. Because dresses and skirts make up a large part of our wardrobes, we women are taught about modesty from a young age. There is a “leg language” so to speak. Crossing our legs,  how we deal with our hems,  how we get out of an automobile, how we sit cross-legged. How wide we spread them apart … the knees-wide approach is part of our dealing with life and communicating who we are and what we want. It is an approach that has  to be shared with your daughter as she grows up simply because of the fashions that we women wear and the fact that she is a female. How we do so is important and we shouldn’t use a negative approach in doing so.

We women should want to spread our knees as wide or even wider than our body permits….a form of a declaration of personal independence. We do it anyway don’t we? Think about it. Walk the beach and see how many moms lay on thier beach towel with their legs open or each day when we wear shorts and slacks we feel free to be “spread” for comfort and even to show off because we’re not in a skirt. We should open wide in our skirts and dresses just as we open wide in shorts and a swimsuit or slacks … even wider … the color of our panties should be common knowledge. We women don’t like to show off our pantyline through what we wear. We need to show off our panties … in our mind and in those discreet actions that we take such as crossing our knees while the hem of our skirt or little black dress struggles to cover our bottoms.

 In those moments when you want to, flashing might be fun and even if but for a moment can reveal your real you. And who cares about it but you. When you take the knees wide approach, you are exercising the freedom of thought and deed that the Dark Lord wants you to experience.

Do it! And see how it feels … for you. Ave Dominum Tenebris!