Being A Porn Star by Shadowysweetpapers

Writer: Shadowysweetpapers

Subject: Being A Porn Star

Link: Tumblr / 22.03.2025

Being A Porn Star

Being a porn star provides a place where a wife or woman can engage in all those fantasies & other sexual explorations that come to mind or she desires to indulge without apprehension because, suddenly, it’s her work … she’s an actress or actor in a profession where the roles are sensual.

This is one of those “Edgy” articles I write with an equally “On the edge”, “Subject to the Tumblr gods intervention” illustration which is meant to grab one’s eye and focus fully on the topic because this fact was pointed out to me by a follower who’s wife is “Into Onlyfans”.

Most often some believe that women are “In porn” because of necessity when it can be a life choice at least for a while where she is able not just to profit but also for pleasure. Her pleasure. She is in that almost perfect situation where she can explore, experiment and indulge her sexual desires, interests and fantasies because that is what we all witness when we view porn.

Suddenly, despite the cultural conflicts involving porn and “What it is”, the corresponding truth is we witness porn every day in various ways and to varying degrees and are, at times, ourselves (speaking to women specifically) walking porn with our attire, appearance, etc.

Then, again, how one defines “porn” always has an impact when it comes to our personal opinions. Anyway, the wife into porn can indulge her deepest desires because it’s the business she is in and has that perfect excuse we all the time hear in Hollywood: “It’s acting. It isn’t real” — how unreal is it when you’re humping or being humped?

Porn, fake, script and out there to make a profit even if it is free online (an example), is “real” in the sense we see the event(s) happening before our eyes even if there is a script or caption or whatever which may be saying it is what it isn’t or the wife or woman involved is playing a role.

For example, the groans and grunts and “More, I want more” may not be real. Still, the woman is being spit-roasted. And considering the smiles and attitudes of women especially on those Onlyfans sites reveal they are there for a reason and they aren’t being forced.

Even in those “Reluctance” flicks, etc, the reluctance is pretty much fake. Still, we women when faced with discovery or asked “Why are you into that?” come up with those reasons where it was a “Have to ” or similar situation compelling her to cast aside all morality and “entertain”.

“It wasn’t real!” or “In the script” isn’t, in the end, an excuse for “I’m not that way” when you watch her orgasm for the umpteenth time with a horse of a guy whose singular effort is fuck you senseless, etc, Still, “it’s in the script” doesn’t cancel out what occurred in the film. Think about it. Sure, there are those women who feel they “Did it” or are doing it as a “Last resort”.

I’m not going to criticize anyone’s reasoning. Again, however, it’s back to the fact that it occurred and continues to occur. We women strip for the camera and indulge in all manner of sensual and sexual activities. Some we may not indulge.

Yet there is an abundance of smiling women into watersports, even (Dark Lord forbid,) scat much less other sexual involvements such as BDSM which, again, isn’t my thing. Then, again, how would we know if we didn’t try them? I haven’t and won’t indulge some and have others after which I have shared “That isn’t for me”. I call those the “Been there done those” decisions.

Another fact is porn provides a platform where a wife and woman can participate by putting themselves “out there” where what is happening is seen as “Performing” and for a profit at that. The ‘performing’ aspect speaks to “this isn’t really who I am” when the reality is just the opposite when it comes to her “Real me’.

Let’s be honest and admit what is happening. However, how we want others to understand us is important and porn, while popular and profitable, is and can be a drawback in general. We are, more and more, viewing porn as more acceptable, marriage counsellors today, for example, are utilizing porn as part of their treatment regimens.

Despite all the negatives, Porn is seen more and more as part of the movie and media industry (some now call it a profession) where what isn’t real is presented as the opposite. I’ve heard more than one person share that you can never really know a movie actor because they are into roleplaying all the time and every day and are who they need to be for the public who might watch them so one can’t be sure no matter how they present themselves on any given day.

The money is good. The facade is false when it comes to “real me” except in porn where you put yourself out there and there isn’t a body double or stunt double, etc, other than photoshopping, etc, which can’t happen when its a live show and she’s spread wide for all to see while the camera is rolling.

More can be said and the issue addressed from all manner of angles. However, I will stop at this point having shared what i wish to say because, well, what I am sharing is the truth.

Why am I again reminded of Mark Twain’s asking a married woman how much she would accept to pose nude and she said something like “a million dollars” or some ridiculous sum?

He replied: “Now that we know what you are, it’s only a matter of coming to a reasonable price.” An unexpected response which, overall, speaks volumes.

A wife may share she is using her body for profit. Still, underlying her doing so is she is able, thereby, to justify as well as engage in, all manner of sensual and sexual experiences because “it’s work”. I am also reminded of Marie, a member of our church who works for a huge brewery conglomerate. A Christian is supposed to be seen as a teetotaler type working amid all that alcohol. She isn’t a brewer. Has nothing to do with the product. Yet, the money is good so why should she give up her livelihood? Those who know her avoid that topic. Still, some say she shouldn’t work there.

I’m not advocating all wives and women decide to be porn stars even if that seems to be a current and acceptable trend among many. I am saying that engaging in sensually focused vocations can make it easier for a wife to experience her fantasies or something similar so while there are issues, implications and complications that can arise, lust and desire and that “need” are always with us so doing so is understandable.

Yes, I’m warm after writing this. Forgive the usual flaws because my efforts as I type are always imperfect. The edgy illustration is one I selected at random from online because it reminds me of me “in both situations” — Think about it. Ave Obscurum Dominum.